I read my friend Andrea is very wise. she said to me the other day, "so many more couples would end up back together if people understood what 'i need some time and space' really meant." she's right. and when you are the person who is not granted said requested time and space, no matter how many times you request it, well then continued correspondence/etc. just become downright irritating. particularly when filled with assumptions and overreactions. last night. And then I decided something.
I am done. I'm for reals out. No more excuses for him because the more excuses, the more I'm being dishonest to myself. I won't ignore my needs and well being to avoid hurting feelings.
I am feeling better about the coming week already.